Thursday, July 23, 2009

the nice guy fallacy.

am i the only one tired of guys [usually black] believing that because they are in college/grad school/whatever or have a non-minimum wage job they should just be welcomed with legs arms wide open.

you're not special because you aren't a bum. that's what you're SUPPOSED to do.
not working at mcdonalds full-time is great and all, but that doesn't make you the great catch you think you are.

and if [black] women aren't knocking themselves out over these "rare" guys, it apparently means that we only like thugs/bad boys.
just because a woman doesn't want you doesn't mean that she wants the antithesis of you. why don't you exfoliate your face and work on your personality. maybe that's the problem.

or these great "nice" guys tend to only go for the most superficial of qualities and then complain when the woman is boring as shit.

i could give a fuck what you do/have. being a secure person with goals is a GREAT base [that many don't have] but guys need an interesting personality too.

smh.


[what a random poorly thought out rant...i started it a while back when this dude pissed me off and just now felt it apropos to publish lol]

7 comments:

K. Michel said...

Hey, Miss PB. I gotta say this is the first time I've heard this. Very, very interesting.

But, you know... it doesn't hurt to have all of that, either babe.

femi. said...

"just because a woman doesn't want you doesn't mean that she wants the antithesis of you. why don't you exfoliate your face and work on your personality. maybe that's the problem."

lol

i love this whole entry.

*~Miss M~* said...

LOL *snap snap*

sometimes the thugs are just easier to deal with...

Beautifully.Conjured.Up said...

I hate when they think that crap...as if the world should bow down to them...they need to get over themselves with the quickness!!

Conni3 said...

I share the same sentiments. And in the CH/Raleigh/Durham area, these types are everywhere.

Show me a ‘good guy’ and I’ll show you a sheep in wolfs clothing.

Chanel said...

you are so fucking funny. you seriously need to finish up those half-written posts you have waiting to be published

Qucifer said...

i have cackled my whole way through this rant saying:

praise!!!!




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